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Social media creates change in the world. Social media is the most crucial medium used in obtaining information. Various types of social media have been attached to community activities, one of which is Instagram. On the Instagram account @Parentaltalk.id where a video of a child aged about 12 begging his father to give him a break, telling his father that he needs "life balance" and that "even a robot" cannot handle the amount of work his father requires in order to study continuously . The child freely expresses his feelings for his father and the father does not interrupt the child's conversation and can accept the child's complaints well without having to scold a child. Communication within the family is an important factor in determining whether a child is good or bad. If communication in the family is harmonious, then the child will really feel that he is very valuable, so that it will foster good attitudes and behavior in the child. This study aims to analyze communication patterns between a child who is frustrated in learning because he does not have time to play. The method in this research is library research. The type of research used is mass media analysis, namely observing and analyzing a mass media. The data analysis technique uses the semiotics of Charles Sanders Pierce, who put forward the theory of a triangle of meaning which consists of three main elements, namely the sign, the object and the interpretant. The results of the study show that communication patterns between children and their fathers sometimes go well, but there are still some that are not good. thus causing worry and anxiety for every parent. The results of the study also show the attitude of children who can express their feelings and frustrations well with their fathers as well as the attitude of a father who provides a safe and free space for his children to express feelings and voice opinions

Communication patterns are very influential in maintaining relationships with the environment such as friends and family. One of the challenges in establishing effective communication patterns for children is social media. The Tiktok application is one of the social media that is now favored by many people, including children. This study aims to analyze the communication patterns between parents and teenagers using social media tiktok. This study uses Mary Anne Fitzpatrick's theory which reveals that family communication patterns depend on two important types of orientation, namely conversation orientation and conformity orientation.This study took place in Puyun village, Halong sub-district, Balangan district and was conducted by 10 informants, namely 5 children of tiktok users and 5 parents of children who use tiktok. The results of the study show that 1) one family of TikTok users has a communication pattern with a high conversational orientation and a high sense of compliance. 2) one family of children using tiktok has a communication pattern with low conversation orientation and high sense of compliance. 3) Three families of children who use tiktok have communication patterns with low conversation orientation and low sense of compliance.